عنوان: Ex-Navy SEAL Jocko Willink: 'Toxic masculinity' and the powerful dichotomy of being a man
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Ex-Navy SEAL Jocko Willink: 'Toxic masculinity' and the powerful dichotomy of being a man
Boys and men shouldn’t follow the advice of a recent report by the American Psychological Association called “Guidelines for the Psychological Practice with Men and Boys.”
These guidelines imply that “traditional masculinity” – such as stoicism, competitiveness, dominance, and aggression – are harmful. These guidelines are wrong.
Stoically controlling your emotions is necessary. Competitive spirit drives success. Dominance – and the mental and physical strength required to dominate – is far superior to a lack of strength, which results in being dominated by someone else. I
And aggression is a means to an end. Without aggressive action, you will likely be on the receiving end, bowing to someone else’s aggression.
Of course, it would be nice to conjure up a world where those “traditionally masculine” traits are outmoded and unnecessary.
Perhaps in that fantasy world everyone could just let their emotions spill out. Instead of competition, in that imagined world everyone would win.
Rather than looking to dominate, in this imaginary realm everyone would collaborate and live as equals.
And finally, in this fictional domain, aggression would not stand and people would simply hug each other and get along.
But that world doesn’t exist.
Would it be nice if it did? Sure. But it doesn’t.
The world is a hard place. Life is tough. Human beings are not always benevolent and kind. You cannot count on charity, tolerance and compassion. If you show your emotions, you might get taken advantage of. If you make emotional decisions, they will likely lead you in the wrong direction. If you lack competitive spirit, you will probably lose on many fronts: in being hired, promoted, negotiating a salary, and even in finding a romantic companion for your life.
Finally, if you are not aggressive, you will not be able to capitalize on opportunities. Good things in life don’t just appear on your doorstep – you have to be aggressive and make them happen. Failure to do so will result in missed opportunities. Instead of you being in control of your life, life will be in control of you.
So: Be stoic, be competitive, be dominant and be aggressive. But it isn’t that simple, and this is where things become difficult. It’s important to not go too far with any of those traits.GO READ THE WHOLE THING.
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